Synopsis
He didn't want a guru. He wanted a toolkit. So, he built one.
Parentless: The Shift from Lost Child to Guide is not a traditional memoir. Drafted using "vibe coding" and synthesized through the lens of a tech-forward thinker, this book treats grief like a system error that needs debugging. It explores the profound identity shift that occurs when the "roof" of your life rips off and you are forced to become your own protector.
Inside, you will find the source code for survival:
- The 6-Month Freeze Protocol: Why your brain cannot be trusted with major decisions right now.
- The "Sadmin" Strategy: How to handle the "Sad Administration" of death certificates and bank accounts without drowning.
- The Sticky Note Protocol: A game-theory approach to dividing family heirlooms without destroying sibling relationships.
- The Pendulum Log: How to oscillate between grief and restoration without guilt.
You are no longer anyone’s child. You are the Elder now. This book is the open-source documentation you need to stop feeling like an imposter in your own life and step into your new role as the Guide.